
“But he wanted to justify himself, so he asked Jesus, ‘And who is my neighbor'” (Luke 10:29)?
Jesus taught the parable of the Good Samaritan to answer this man’s question, “Who is my neighbor?”
We’re not that different from the Pharisee whom Jesus taught about loving his neighbor. We don’t know who our neighbor is either. Sure, we see them checking the mail and mowing their lawn, but we rarely peep over our fences to actually talk to them, much less “love them.”
A pastor friend of mine recently sent me this list of 25 ways to engage your neighborhood. He copied it from an article written by Jonathan Dodson on missional engagement. Without further comment on my part, here is the article as it was forwarded to me:
Recently I made a list of 100 ways to engage your neighborhood. I have found that it is often helpful to have practical ideas to start engaging the people around me in order to be a better neighbor. Most of the things on this list are normal, everyday things that many people are already doing. The hope is that we would do these things with Gospel intentionality. This means we do them:
- In the normal rhythms of life pursuing to meet and engage new people
- Prayerfully watching and listening to the Holy Spirit to discern where God is working.
- Looking to boldly, humbly, and contextually proclaiming the Gospel in word and deed.
Below is a list of my top 25. Not all of these are for everyone, but hopefully there will be several ideas on the list that God uses to help you engage your neighbors. Would love to hear stories of how you have lived some of these out or other ways you have engaged your neighbors.
1. Stay outside in the front yard longer while watering the yard
2. Walk your dog regularly around the same time in your neighborhood
3. Sit on the front porch and letting kids play in the front yard
4. Pass out baked goods (fresh bread, cookies, brownies, etc.)
5. Invite neighbors over for dinner
6. Attend and participate in HOA functions
7. Attend the parties invited to by neighbors
8. Do a food drive or coat drive in winter and get neighbors involved
9. Have a game night (yard games outside, or board games inside)
10. Art swap night – bring out what you’re tired of and trade with neighbors
11. Grow a garden and give out extra produce to neighbors
12. Have an Easter egg hunt on your block and invite neighbors use their front yards
13. Start a weekly open meal night in your home
14. Do a summer BBQ every Friday night and invite others to contribute
15. Create a block/ street email and phone contact list for safety
16. Host a sports game watching party
17. Host a coffee and dessert night
18. Organize and host a ladies artistic creation night
19. Organize a tasting tour on your street (everyone sets up food and table on front porch)
20. Host a movie night and discussion afterwards
21. Start a walking/running group in the neighborhood
22. Start hosting a play date weekly for other stay at home parents
23. Organize a carpool for your neighborhood to help save gas
24. Volunteer to coach a local little league sports team
25. Have a front yard ice cream party in the summer.
“During Gideon’s lifetime, the land enjoyed peace forty years” (Judges 8:28).
“He is like a tree planted by streams of water, which yields its fruit in season and whose leaf does not wither. Whatever he does prospers” (Psalm 1:3 NIV).
“It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery” (Galatians 5:1).
“The Son is the radiance of God’s glory” (Hebrews 1:3 NIV).
“For God was pleased to have all his fullness dwell in him, and through him to reconcile to himself all things, whether things on earth or things in heaven, by making peace through his blood, shed on the cross” (Colossians 1:19-20).
Basic training is physically and mentally demanding, but they are preparing our sons and daughters for war. Chaplains go to war with their fellow soldiers, putting their lives at risk while at the same time offering encouragement and solace. This is a paradoxical role. Wearing army green, but carrying a Bible under their arm instead of a rifle. (Photo: Jonathan is the one in the middle with the big smile.)
“Your attitude should be the same as that of Christ Jesus: Who, being in very nature
Auston Jones just finished his junior year at NC State. He started interning with us a couple of weeks ago. Since we just moved into our newly remodeled building, a lot of the work we have to do is very physical and often menial. The first week of his summer internship with us he was assigned the task of organizing and cleaning the storage room.
So, this past week we had Auston teach at our high school youth meeting on Sunday evening, he taught at our men’s meeting on Monday evening, and on Wednesday evening he organized and led the Hot-Diggity-Dog church picnic.
“Yet to all who received him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God” (John 1:12 NIV).

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