What in the world?

Earth_from_space “My prayer is not that you take them out of the world but that you protect them from the evil one. They are not of the world, even as I am not of it. Sanctify them by the truth; your word is truth. As you sent me into the world, I have sent them into the world” (John 17:15-18 NIV).

When the Bible talks about the “world,” it is almost always referring to human culture. And as we’ve been discussing these past weeks, the culture has been bent by human sin. The culture is crooked.

So, what in the world do we do in response to living in a crooked culture?

Almost half a century ago, H. Richard Niebuhr’s book, Christ and Culture, laid down a framework of five typical answers to the question. In the book, Niebuhr gave a history of how Christianity has responded to culture. He outlined five prevalent viewpoints:

 

  • Christ against culture. Following Christ alone, we reject the culture. We become separatists from culture.
  • Christ of culture. Affirming both Christ and culture, we become accomodationists of culture.
  • Christ above culture. Believing that neither a blank rejection or acceptance of culture is in order, we attempt a synthesis of both.
  • Christ and culture in paradox. Believing that we live in dual kingdoms, we attempt to live in both, while at the same time recognizing their differences. We become dualists.
  • Christ transforming culture. While similar to the dualist’s view of two kingdoms, this view believes that culture can be improved and that a holy Christian community on earth is possible.

As I studied Niebuhr’s book in seminary, I saw things I could affirm in all five responses to culture. I know Christians throughout history have struggled with this question.

The church of my youth came closest to Niebuhr’s first category, Christ against culture. We heard sermons on the evils of TV and Rock and Roll. We were challenged to watch our hair styles (“The Bible says it’s a shame for a man to have long hair.”) and our dress code (“Women shouldn’t wear pants.”). Our church represented a cultural island within the larger American culture. I tried to live in both, but often felt schizophrenic in the attempt. There had to be a better way to live.

I want to live in the world the way Jesus did. I can think of at least three metaphors that Jesus taught that can shape our response to today’s culture.

  • Be like salt. Jesus tells us that we are the “salt of the earth.” Salt does many things. It adds flavor. It has healing properties. It can be used as a preservative.  Like salt, we are to be influencers of the culture’s flavor. We are to be healers of the culture’s wounds and preservers of that which is good.
  • Be like light. Jesus tell us that we are the “light of the world.” Light gives sight and exposes the darkness. We are to share the truth about the gospel and expose falsehood in the culture.
  • Be fruitful.  Jesus tells us that we are to bear “much fruit.” We are to do good in the world just as He did. We are to bear the fruit of being God’s children, showing the world God’s goodness.

If we’re going to be salt, then we’ll have to mix it up with the world to affect its flavor. If we’re going to be light, then we’ll have to shine bright, so the world can see. If we’re going to be fruitful, then we’re going to have to devote ourselves to doing good in this world of need.

We’ll have to live in this world where Jesus sent us just like God sent Him.

 

Cross culture that sticks

Ash-wednesday “For the grace of God that brings salvation has appeared to all men. It teaches us to say “No” to ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright and godly lives in this present age, while we wait for the blessed hope–the glorious appearing of our great God and Savior, Jesus Christ” (Titus 2:11-13 NIV).

We had a special Ash Wednesday service last night. We had an extended time of “unplugged” worship, with public prayers and Scripture reading. We concluded with a challenge from the Word and a time of response that included receiving the sign of the Cross in ashes upon our foreheads.

We’re not a traditional church, so we don’t usually follow such practices. In fact, it’s the first Ash Wednesday service we’ve ever held. I actually had to look up the recipe for ashes on the internet (“Make sure to mix in a little olive oil with the ashes to make them stick.” – One minister suggested).

We’re serious about being a new culture of those called out from the world’s culture, a people marked by the Cross of Christ. We believe that this salvation in Christ that we have received is shaping us and making us a new people, a people that can say “No” to that in the world’s culture that is ungodly. But this salvation doesn’t just call us out of the world’s culture, it also sends us back in, showing us how to live godly lives in “this present age.” So, we become bearers of the Cross of Christ, pointing people to the blessed hope of His return.

The traditional words spoken by the minister while making the mark of ashes are, “Remember that you are dust, and to dust you shall return.” This is taken from Genesis 3:9 and reminds the congregant of their own mortality and need for repentance and salvation. We certainly affirm this.

But we wanted to say something different. We wanted to say something about being the people of the Cross and carrying the message of the Cross. So, as I looked into the tear-filled eyes of person after person, coming forward to receive the sign of the Cross last night, I said,

“Remember the Cross.”

After the service, as we walked back out into the night, I prayed that the world wouldn’t quickly wipe it off. I prayed that the Oil would make it stick.

Crooked culture

CrookedTree “So that you may become blameless and pure, children of God without fault in a crooked and depraved generation, in which you shine like stars in the universe” (Philippians 2:15 NIV).

What is culture and how did it get crooked?

While there are many ways to define the word “culture,” the definition that we will be using is as follows:

“Culture is the sum total of ways of living built up by a group of human beings and transmitted from one generation to another” (Dictionary.com).

With this meaning in mind, we may say, “I love Greek culture.” Or, “I am a Southerner.”

Both of the statements above refer to a certain way of life developed by people living in that particular time and/or geographic area. When we speak of culture in this sense, we must include the following aspects (List borrowed from the Roshan Cultural Heritage Institute):

  • Language: the most sophisticated medium of expression.
  • Arts and Sciences: the most advanced and refined forms of human expression.
  • Thought: the ways in which people perceive, interpret, and understand the world around them.
  • Spirituality: the value system transmitted through generations for the inner well-being of human beings, expressed through language and actions.
  • Social activity: the shared pursuits within a cultural community, demonstrated in a variety of festivities, feasts and life celebrating events.
  • Interaction: the social aspects of human contact, including the give-and-take of socialization, negotiation, protocol and conventions.

So, culture is a man-made reality. It’s how we accent our language and how we spice our food. It’s the music we play and the entertainment we enjoy. It’s the lens through which we view reality– it’s our worldview.

But the Bible warns that the culture of this world is “crooked.” There’s something not quite right in the world and our inner compass can sense it. There’s a thorn on the rose, a worm in the apple. The family portrait over the mantle is hanging a little… crooked. Sure there’s beauty and good  in the world, but it’s mixed in with a morass of ugliness and evil. Human culture is crooked.

How did it get that way?

Sin.

That’s the human twist that bent the culture crooked. When Adam and Eve sinned in the garden, the world that God had declared “good” was affected/infected too. God’s grace and goodness still glistens through, but humanity and this world have been crooked ever since. There are weeds in the garden.

How do we respond?

We shine. But more on that later…

Sorry Mr. President, I guess we’re hurting the economy

Econo “The rich rule over the poor, and the borrower is servant to the lender” (Proverbs 22:7 NIV).

It is for freedom that Christ has set us free. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery” (Galatians 5:1 NIV).

These past several weeks we’ve been teaching on how to follow godly principles for financial fitness. The response has been amazing. People have decided to live more simply, cut back on spending, save more, get out of debt, and even give more.

One family decided not to buy a new car, but instead put new tires on their old clunker. Another family decided against a new dining table. Another postponed a kitchen remodel. One family has even decided to sell their house and downsize in order to live more simply and also so that they can be free to give more.

As a result, our WCC families are getting free from financial bondage and learning the joy of simple living and generous giving. But at the same time, I suppose we owe the President an apology. After all, he and the congress have been spending lots of our tax money trying to stimulate consumer spending.

I guess we’re hurting the economy because we’re not stimulated to consume more. We’re repenting of being consumers, we want to become debt free, so we can be generous givers and radical “livers.”

According to a recent article, we’re not the only ones that are cutting back on our consumer spending. Author Kevin G. Hall reports that the age of the American consumer economy is dead. He describes how our spending based on easy credit created a world-wide economy that has now fallen into crisis.

“China became a manufacturing hub by selling attractively priced exports to U.S. consumers who were living beyond their means. China’s Asian neighbors sent it components for final assembly; Africa and Latin America sold China their raw materials. All fed off U.S. consumers’ bottomless appetite for more, bought on credit.” (By Kevin G. Hall, “A Year After Financial Crisis, Consumer Economy Dead,” McClatchy Newspapers).

It seems to me that the so-called consumer economy was always unsustainable. Not only do I think it would be a mistake to attempt to return to that mode, but I don’t believe we can. The days of easy credit  are over for a while.

I believe that Christians should live simply and stay free from debt, so that they can be free to follow God’s call and to give generously when they see a need. I believe that we can model a more faithful way of life to our fellow Americans during these challenging times.

Perhaps God has allowed this economic crisis to “stimulate” us to stop looking for meaning in our possessions and to turn to Him.

Fit for what?

Spa_fitness_masthead “Jesus replied, ‘No one who puts his hand to the plow and looks back is fit for service in the kingdom of God'” (Luke 9:62 NIV).

My wife and I try to work out at the YMCA three days a week. It’s a discipline we started a few years ago after noticing a decline in our health.

We’re not preparing for a marathon. I have no plans to try out for the NFL (Although, Brett Favre has given us all hope). We’re just trying to stay fit in order to slow down the descent.  We both want to stay physically fit enough to be of service.

Physical fitness and financial fitness are similar, which ever one you’re talking about, the question is the same,”Fit for what?” What is the reason for fitness? Why work at being fit?

Some may think that working hard at getting fit is so that they can be rich. Perhaps they want their picture on the cover of Forbes, crowding out Bill Gates and the Sam Walton family. They see fitness as the preparation for winning at life, whether it be in business, sports, or fame.

But I believe that the Bible wants us to be fit for service. God wants us to follow His Word on taking care of our bodies and our possessions, so that we can be useful in His Kingdom.

God teaches us how to be financially fit, so that we can be free to follow His call of service.

What kind of inheritance will we leave?

PapaCadence “A good man leaves an inheritance for his children’s children” (Proverbs 13:22 NIV).

On Sunday, January 10, 2010, our tribe increased again. Our son, Stephen, and his wife, Caroline, had a baby girl. They named her Cadence Story Combs.

“Cadence” is named for their love of music and “Story” is a family name on Caroline’s side. Both names suggest an inheritance. One, that she would be attuned to follow God’s rhythm in her life and the other, that she would be a willing character in God’s story.

Cadence came into this world letting us know that she already follows the beat of a different drummer. Arriving a month early, she didn’t even wait for the conductor’s (doctor’s) cue. While weighing only a tiny 4 lbs. 14 oz. at birth, she already has a great grip on her grandfather’s finger (photo taken above at one day old) and his heart.

I think having a good name is an important part of her inheritance. I do a lot of thinking about such things these days now that I’m twice a grandfather (with her and Nathaniel). I’m praying and living more and more intentionally, with the kind of legacy I want to leave behind in mind.

The Bible approves of such intentional, thoughtful living. It encourages parents and grandparents to pass on the faith stories and blessings of God to their children and their children’s children.

I want to be a “good” grandfather who leaves an inheritance to his grandchildren. The legacy I want to leave includes the desire to bless them financially. This is clearly a biblical desire. Godly men always want to take care of their families. I will follow sound biblical principles to provide for this. While I’m certainly no millionaire, I do pray that God will let me be a financial blessing to my family some day.

But more than a financial inheritance, I plan to leave them a spiritual legacy. This will require a lot of prayer and intentional living too. We have given our children and our grandchildren good, strong names, but I won’t be satisfied until every one of them calls on the name of Jesus.

When my new granddaughter holds my finger in her little hand, squeezing it as she looks into my eyes, I will be saying, “Cadence, I am your Papa and you are loved. Loved by your Daddy and Mommy. Loved by your Ming and Papa. But most of all, you are loved by Jesus. Who’s Jesus you wonder? Well, let me tell you about Him…”

Even Barbie has a credit card

Barbie%20shopping%20boutique “Let no debt remain outstanding” (Romans 13:8 NIV).

This past week in our community group meeting we were discussing the importance of getting out of debt. I asked our group to answer the following question:

“What does our culture teach us about debt?”

Everyone agreed that the culture teaches us to charge now and pay later. We are brainwashed into buying things now on credit without having a clue of how we’re going to repay.

One person exclaimed, “Now they’re even teaching our little girls how to use credit cards! Fashion Fever Barbie comes with a cash register and a credit card!”

“No way!” I said.

“It’s true.” Another mom chimed in. “Our girls have one.”

A plastic doll teaching our little girls to buy things with plastic. Unbelievable!

But the Bible calls us to be a Kingdom culture, to offer a counter-culture to this world. We’re called to be salt and light. In this season of economic uncertainty, what better time to model biblical wisdom in money management?

So what does the Bible say about credit cards and Barbie dolls? Nothing. But it does have a lot to say about debt. The Bible tells us to avoid debt because it enslaves us to the lender. The Bible teaches us to get out of debt quickly and to live beneath our means, so that we can be free.

Free to do what? Free to live and give. Free to be a blessing and to answer God’s call.

Not in slavery because of a piece of plastic.

Know your financial vitals

Steth “Be sure you know the condition of your flocks, give careful attention to your herds; for riches do not endure forever, and a crown is not secure for all generations” (Proverbs 27:23-24 NIV).

“And Jesus grew in wisdom and stature, and in favor with God and men” (Luke 2:52).

For the last several years I’ve taken a study break the last week of the year. During these breaks I’ve developed certain habits to get myself focused and ready to hear from God. One of the habits that I’ve practiced is the discipline of reflection.

I’ve rooted this habit with a practice that begins with certain concrete questions. These questions involve taking stock of what’s happened in the last year and where things stand in the present. I compare outcomes with goals that were set for the previous year. I am brutally honest with myself. I’m convinced that we must know where we’ve been and where we are now, before we can get to where we want to go. Just like a physician checks our vital signs before he offers any medical advice, we must know our vitals.

The writer of the gospel of Luke was a physician. He took note that Jesus grew in four ways: wisdom, stature, in favor with God, and in favor with men. In other words, Jesus grew 1) mentally, 2) physically, 3) spiritually, and 4) socially.

My habit of reflection involves checking my vitals in those four areas. I call them my Luke 2:52 goals.

As I look at these goals from year to year, I often sense God leading me to lean into one of the areas a bit more. Last year, after turning 50, I really sensed that God wanted me to get serious about my health, so I could have the strength to continue doing what He has called me to do. So, I had a complete physical, an endoscopy, colonoscopy (not fun), had my gall bladder removed, and started working out 3 days a week at the YMCA. I feel a lot better about myself and I feel more energy to do God’s work.

This year, I sensed a need to lean into financial fitness more. I usually list this under the “mental” category because money management has a lot to do with mental attitude, planning (budgeting), knowledge about money, and habits.

So, as part of this step I answer four questions to check my financial fitness vitals. They are: What do I …

  1. Earn
  2. Spend
  3. Own
  4. Owe

Just like stepping on the scales, it’s not that much fun checking your financial vitals, but wisdom demands it. We really can’t begin to improve our situation until we recognize our current condition.

Knowing our vitals, we can admit our need for change (biblical word: repentance). Then, we can begin to pray, plan (budget), and act on what is needed to improve.

I’m convinced that we as Christians can depend on God for help in this. Jesus had a lot to say about how we handle money. I believe that He wants us to live with such fitness in this area that it models hope to our economically challenged world today.

We’ll see you in heaven Nana.

NanaGary0709 “For we know that when this earthly tent we live in is taken down—when we die and leave these bodies—we will have a home in heaven, an eternal body made for us by God himself and not by human hands” (2 Corinthians 5:1 NLT).

When I first started dating Robin, I had to date the whole family. Every weekend was scheduled by their family gospel group, the Happy Hearts. If I wanted to go out on Saturday night with Robin, I had to get on the Happy Heart bus and ride to their next concert date.

While being a “roadie” for the Happy Hearts wasn’t exactly what I had in mind when I was dating my wife to be, it was a great way to get to know her family, especially her mom, Christine Conner.

Robin’s dad mostly picked on me. “Did you get that one College Boy?” He’d ask, after telling another corny joke. Eyeballing me in the huge overhead mirror with a wry, half-smile, while gripping the oversize Greyhound steering wheel with both hands, he’d wait to see if I laughed.

But Mrs. Conner asked serious questions, about me and about what I believed. Apparently, no one ever told her that religion and politics were touchy topics for polite conversation because she would ask me a question and then debate me if we differed in any way.

I never minded. I come from a family that discusses everything. I had strong opinions and so did Mrs. Conner. We both shared our views and a growing respect grew between us.

When Robin and I married and had children, they called Mrs. Conner, “Nana.” So, I started calling her Nana too.

When we would visit, Nana always made special foods for me.

“Gary, did you see that cheesecake in the fridge? I made that just for you!” She’d say, while rushing around her kitchen preparing for dinner.

“Thanks Nana. It looks great.” I’d reply, knowing that cooking was her way of showing love.

“After dinner, I want to show you a new book I got on Revelation.” She’d say. She loved to discuss the Bible, especially books on the end times.

After I became a pastor, she wanted my weekly sermon tapes. We mailed her a tape every week for years. She would write and tell me what she thought of my latest sermon. She even started giving them out to her friends after she listened.

“Why don’t you move back to Virginia?” She’d ask. “You could be my pastor.” She would say, while squeezing my hand.

This past year, she hasn’t been able to listen to my sermons. Her health declined rapidly after Robin’s father passed away. But she still wanted me to do my job.

“Can I pray for you Nana?” I asked, the last time I was with her.

“Yes.” She mouthed through the oxygen mask, while raising up in her hospital bed to grab my hands in hers.

As I prayed, she murmured “Amen” and “Yes” to every sentence, punctuating my prayer with her affirmations of faith.

“I wish I had you in my amen corner at church.” I said.

She nodded weakly and mouthed, “Me too.”

As Robin leaned over to hug her, they played the “I love you more” game. Then she looked into Robin’s eyes and said, “I’ll see you in heaven, honey.”

She was ready. And so, early this past Tuesday morning, Christine Conner went to be with the Lord.

We’ll see you soon Nana. Be looking for us. We’ll have great things to discuss.

I wanted a Johnny West for Christmas

Johnnywest1 “For God so loved the world that he gave…” (John 3:16).

In 1966 I wanted a “Johnny West” for Christmas.

But ’66 was a tough year. My father died of cancer in November of that year at the age of 39. I was eight. My mother was so exhausted and emotionally overwhelmed after a year of watching my father’s decline, that we moved from Virginia to Michigan to live with her sister.

An eight year old handles such things differently than an adult. I remember being very upset about my father’s death, but also very aware of many other concerns. Where would I attend school? Would I have my own bedroom? Would my mother be OK (She cried all the time)? And of course, would I get a “Johnny West” for Christmas?

We barely had time to move in with my aunt and her family before Christmas time was upon us. I was enrolled in third grade in a school about six blocks from the house. I shared a twin bed with my four year old brother Barry, in my cousin Randy’s bedroom. Mom was still crying a lot, but my Aunt Gerri and Uncle Gene were keeping things in order and full of laughter (I really needed order).

So, only one concern remained… what would I get for Christmas?

Christmas morning came and we lept from our beds and ran down the basement steps to see what was under the tree. As we rounded the corner and entered the rec room, I saw “Johnny” standing there next to his black stallion, Thunderbolt. Such joy flooded my soul!

Then, my mother said, “Oh, Gary, that’s not yours honey.” While pointing on the other side of the tree. “Yours and Barry’s toys are on this side.”

As I rushed to the other side of the tree, I caught a glimpse of “my” toys. My mind screamed in confusion. “Surely not!” I thought.

Johnny_west But there it was. A “Jane West” with a palomino pony.

Barry got a “Jane” too and he already had her out of the box and riding her pony. Apparently, his four year old masculinity hadn’t kicked-in sufficiently as of yet. He seemed perfectly content.

I just stood there starring. I looked back and forth between Jane and my mother, my mouth hung open. Words failed.

“I’m sorry honey.” My mother said. “When we went to the store, all the Johnnys were sold out. But they had plenty of Janes. I didn’t know what else to do..” She continued, with that familiar, sad look coming on her face.

Seeing her face, I decided to make the best of it. I hated to see my mother sad.

I put Jane on her horse, slung a rifle across the saddle, and told my cousin Randy that his Johnny better not have any ideas that he could shoot better than my Jane. Long before the movie, I had created my own “GI Jane!”

I think back on that Christmas in 1966 now with fond memories. That my mom could even get herself together enough to go shopping for her three kids after losing her beloved husband mere weeks before, was an expression of her love. Joy and sadness were mixed together that Christmas.

I wonder if the first Christmas was like that? An unwed mother traveled with her betrothed. Was she concerned about where they would sleep? Whether they would have a room of their own?

And in heaven, was the Father’s joy (as displayed by the Heavenly Choir singing “Gloria!”) already mixed with sorrow at the anticipation of His great gift being sacrificed on a tree?

Somehow, His Story has made me look back on my story in such a way that the joy mixed with sorrow has turned to sweetness. His Story is the Gospel Story.

It is the story that God so loved that He gave.