“I am engaged in a great work, so I can’t come. Why should I stop working to come and meet with you?” (Nehemiah 6:3 NLT).

LEARNING TO SAY NO TO THINGS THAT DON’T MATTER

Nehemiah knew when to say “Yes” and when to say “No.” He was focused on rebuilding the walls of Jerusalem and he didn’t have time for distractions, especially for those that meant him harm.

Learning when to say “No” may be one of the most important leadership traits, as many leaders struggle with being people-pleasers. Great leaders let their God-given vision direct when to say “Yes” or “No.” This guards them against being stopped or slowed by detractors, no matter how influential the naysayers may be. Nehemiah knew that he was “doing a great work” that was given to him by God. He didn’t have time for critics who weren’t helping with the work. Especially since he knew that they were against the work itself.

Saying “No” to those things that don’t contribute to God’s calling on your life makes room in your life for saying “Yes” to those things that do truly matter.

Have you learned when to say “Yes” and when to say “No”? Let the Lord guide you in this.

PRAYER: Dear Father, direct us today by Your Spirit, O Lord. Teach us when to say “Yes” and when to say “No.” We do not want to waste our days. Strengthen us to do Your will. In Jesus’ name, amen.